Yesterday I spoke with
a dear friend about new changes we introduced into our homes. Some of the
changes that my husband and I are bringing into our family are not necessarily new
but things that have worked for us in the past. For example, the chores chart.
My blessings have chores to do but have we enforced them like we should? No. Do
they complete the tasks I have given them to do? Most of the time. Our family
needs to get back on track with our routine and organization.
When I prayed about my
2014 to-do list four words kept coming to mind. Time management and
organization. I cringed each time I thought about this. I have become horrible
with these four words. My family and friends can tell you that many times I
forget to do something, or I am late mailing things out, or late bringing items
to people. It truly bothers me that I am like that.
So, that is what I am
working on this year. Time management and organization. When speaking with my
friend I told her that I am taking things slow. I cannot just jump in with both
feet and take all the changes at once. I know myself. I will fail if I do that.
I become overwhelmed, stressed, angry, and then feel like a failure. Some
people can just jump in and make the changes, but with this area of my life, I
can’t. I knew that the new changes would take some time for my family to get
use to as well.
I have introduced the
chore chart again. I have revamped it by adding new chores or taking away some
that are not needed. We need to work on getting back into school and waking up
early. The last couple of months we have slacked on this. Instead of waking up
Monday morning at 6am and starting this new routine, I am slowly working on getting
up earlier each morning.
Starting new routines
can be overwhelming because most people believe they should jump in all at
once. I have learned that it takes time. Focus on one area that you want to incorporate
and work on that area. Then once you have that figured out, move onto the next
item and so on.
If you have certain
goals or resolutions for the New Year remember it is for the YEAR not the first week or the first month of the
year, but the whole year. You have
time. Slow down. Focus on one or two areas and then move onto the next. You got
this!
Slow
and steady wins the race, remember?
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